This question really bores me these days.
I am now no longer a college student, I have to make a live on my own, when I come across some problems,
I am not willing to tell my parents again, although their help could come to me immediately.
For days I had filled myself in the horrible and gloomy mood, therefore both my work and personal fairs are
far behind the schudule.
Until one day, some one ask me: 'Are you a real man? Could you show me a little bit?'
Yes, whether I am a real man? Am I?
As my father told me, a real man should take response not only for himself, but also his family, he gonna to
protect his wife and children, he is the only person they could depend on. These words had been deeply melt into
my mind every since I started with my work.
Real men do cry, do show emotions and they do ask for forgiveness.
God did not forget to install tear ducts in the male of the species as women do. They are there for a reason.
Things that touch your deeply in your heart such as your lover's sweetness whispering in your ears, a warm hug
from your friends when you feel upset, or even break up with the one you deeply in love with. They all have the
ability to tug at your heart strings. Do not try to hide your tears. Let them. It is unhealthy keeping your emotions
hidden away, both emotionally and physically. Women love to see your softness. Let them in and take a chance
on being vulnerable.
If you wrong or hurt someone, set your pride aside and seek forgiveness. Ask her for it. There is nothing more
healing than forgiveness. You aren't above humbling yourself to let someone know that you're sorry that you've
hurt her. You can't ask her to forgive you at once, and you can't turn the situation back to it used to be neither.
What you have to do and can only do is be patient, bear this in your mind, that can only time change everything.
Get in touch with your true heart. Opening yourself up to the people you trust. Let others get closer to your
If you wanna to cry, cry it out.
If you wanna to shout, shout loudly.
Real men try to treat everybody decently.
Real men never hit women. Or children. Ever.
Real men never make a promise lightly, but if they make it, they devote their whole lives to protect the promise.
Real men don't try to prove their masculinity. They're men, that's all, and if you disagree, that's your problem.
Real men judge people on how they treat other people.
Ok , man, do not matter whatever it takes, just be yourself, and that do make something different.
So every second, Every day, You make a decision, That bring changes to your life.